The Kids Are Not Alright
How
We Broke Education, Why a Billion-View Anthem Became a Cry for Help, and What
We Must Do About It
Something unusual happened in 2025. A song from an
animated Netflix film about K-pop demon hunters — featuring fictional girl
group HUNTR/X performing a track called "Golden" — became a
generational anthem. Not just popular. Not just viral. Something closer to a
lifeline. Children, tweens, teenagers, and adults played it hundreds of times
on a loop. They sang it at Halloween. They cried to it. It won the Academy
Award for Best Original Song. It surpassed one billion YouTube views in less
than seven months.
Why? What does it mean when the
most-streamed movie of any year in Netflix history — watched the equivalent of
207 million times in 2025 alone — is a story about young women who are
dismissed, underestimated, and burdened with a secret purpose the world refuses
to acknowledge? What does it tell us that our kids are clinging to an
empowerment anthem with an almost desperate fervor?
It tells us the kids are not
alright. And if we are honest — really honest — it tells us that we, the adults
who built and administer their educational world, are a significant part of
why.
The Phenomenon Is Real — Let's Start with the Facts
Before examining what is
broken, it is worth establishing the scale of what we are discussing. KPop
Demon Hunters, a Sony Pictures Animation production released on Netflix on June
20, 2025, became the most popular Netflix film of all time by August 26, 2025 —
surpassing both Red Notice and Squid Game Season 1 — with more than 500 million
views recorded by late December 2025. According to Nielsen Media Research, it
accumulated 20.5 billion viewing minutes in the U.S. alone, making it the
most-streamed movie of the entire year. Nearly half of those viewers — 48%, per
Nielsen — were children between the ages of 2 and 11.
The film's soundtrack, led by
"Golden," set records that had never been set before in the history
of the Billboard charts: it was the first soundtrack to place four songs
simultaneously in the Billboard Hot 100's top ten. "Golden" topped
the Billboard Hot 100 for eight nonconsecutive weeks — the first time a song by
an all-female group reached No. 1 on the Billboard Streaming Songs chart. The
song's official lyric video crossed one billion YouTube views in January 2026 —
a milestone that typically takes a decade or more, reached in under seven
months. At the 2026 Academy Awards, "Golden" became the first K-pop
track to ever win an Oscar for Best Original Song.
One of the songwriters,
EJAE, offered perhaps the most telling words of the entire awards season when
she accepted the Golden Globe: "It's a dream come true to be part of a
song that's helping other girls, other boys, and everyone of all ages to get
through their hardships and accept themselves. This award goes to people who
had doors closed on them."
Doors closed on them. When a
billion-plus plays of one song can be traced back to that sentiment — the
feeling of exclusion, the hunger for acceptance, the desire to be seen as
something more than what you are told you are — we need to ask why so many of
our children feel that those doors are closed.
The Youth Mental Health Crisis Is Documented, Not Debated
In October 2021, the American
Academy of Pediatrics, the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry,
and the Children's Hospital Association issued a joint declaration calling
youth mental health "a national emergency." Two months later, U.S.
Surgeon General Vivek Murthy followed with a rare public health advisory,
documenting a "devastating" decline in the mental health of young
Americans — noting critically that the decline began a full decade before
COVID-19.
The data since then has not
improved enough to reassure. According to the CDC's Youth Risk Behavior Survey,
one in five high school students seriously considered suicide in the last year.
From 2009 to 2023, the percentage who actually attempted suicide rose by 43%.
In 2024, 45% of youth ages 10 to 24 reported struggling with their mental
health within the previous two years, per the Youth Mental Health Tracker from
Surgo Health. In the 2024-2025 school year, more than half of public schools
(53%) reported a rise in students seeking mental health services — yet only 52%
of those schools said they were effective at actually providing those services.
These are not footnotes to a
policy document. These are children. And the question we must face squarely is
this: how much of their crisis is manufactured — or at least worsened — by the
educational environment we have built for them?
The Purpose Has Been Engineered Out of Education
Over the last three decades,
American education underwent a transformation driven not by what children need
but by what is easy to measure. The standards-and-accountability movement —
turbocharged by No Child Left Behind in 2001 and extended through Race to the
Top — turned schools into testing factories. Textbook publishers and assessment
corporations built multi-billion-dollar industries around standardized
curriculum. Politicians found the language of "accountability" and
"metrics" irresistible.
The result? An educational
culture of compulsory busywork. Students are assigned tasks not because they
lead anywhere meaningful, but because they occupy time in ways that are legible
to administrators and defensible to policymakers. Teachers know this. Research
confirms it. And most importantly, children feel it.
According to a longitudinal
study cited in a 2025 Education Week report, the percentage of K-12 teachers
who described themselves as enthusiastic about their jobs plummeted from over
60% in 2010 to a mere 20% by 2020. When your teachers are not inspired, you
will not be inspired. Engagement is contagious — and so is its absence.
This is the dead horse theory
in action. Educators and researchers have pointed out for decades that doubling
down on testing-based accountability has not improved outcomes for the students
who most need support. Yet the system continues to mount the same horse, spur
it harder, and wonder why it will not run. Albert Einstein's widely attributed
observation applies: doing the same thing over and over while expecting
different results is a definition of insanity. In education, it also happens to
be policy.
The Deep Roots: How Education Was Built to Control, Not Inspire
The present crisis in education
is not an accident, and it is not new. Understanding why requires an honest
look at how the teaching profession was constructed — and for whose benefit.
From the colonial period
through the early 1800s, teaching was dominated by men — a transient activity
performed between farming seasons or as a stepping stone to law or medicine.
But as the industrial revolution accelerated and men found more lucrative options
in factories and business, educational reformers led by figures like Horace
Mann expanded the Common Schools movement and faced an urgent question: who
would staff this suddenly massive public education system?
The answer was women — and the
economics were explicit. Historical scholarship from researcher John Rury and
others documents that female teachers were paid approximately one-third to
one-half the wages of their male counterparts in the standardized school
systems of the mid-to-late 19th century. By 1850, feminization of the teaching
profession had taken hold in urban areas. School committees, as historian Rury
notes, often searched in vain for male applicants before hiring women, and one
of the explicit advantages was cost.
The ideology that rationalized
this arrangement is particularly telling. Women were framed as "naturally
suited" to teaching children — gentle, morally pure, innately nurturing.
The argument, which can be read in reformer Henry Barnard's 1857 Journal of
Education, held that women's "more gentle and refined manners" made
them superior teachers. But as scholars at Facing History & Ourselves have
documented, this discourse of supposed superiority coexisted with a system that
denied women professional status, fired them upon marriage, and placed them
under the supervisory authority of a male administrative hierarchy. The message
was clear: women could do the work, but men would define, evaluate, and control
it.
This two-tiered system — women
teaching, men managing — is not merely historical. Its structural legacy
persists in the way the teaching profession is still regarded: underpaid
relative to comparable professions, subject to bureaucratic micromanagement, and
perpetually vulnerable to the argument that demanding better conditions is
somehow at odds with caring about children. As one academic from Dalhousie
University has written, popular discourse about "good teachers" today
still echoes the 19th-century notion that teaching comes "naturally"
to a predominantly female workforce — and that it is somehow bad taste when
teachers demand fair treatment.
That history of exclusion
extended further. The education of Black students, indigenous students,
students with disabilities, students from poor families, and female students
was either formally denied or systematically degraded for most of American history.
Brown v. Board of Education (1954) was not the end of educational exclusion —
it was a pivot point in an ongoing struggle. Today, new culture war battles are
being fought over which histories can be taught, which identities can be
acknowledged, and whose children's experiences are considered legitimate. The
2025 RAND State of the American Teacher survey found that Black teachers and
Hispanic teachers experience significantly higher rates of burnout, depression,
and intent to leave — in part because the political climate has made their
professional environments actively hostile.
The Teachers Are Not Alright Either
You cannot have children who
feel seen, inspired, and purposeful if their teachers feel none of those
things. And right now, by virtually every available measure, American teachers
are in crisis.
According to the June 2025
analysis from the Learning Policy Institute, approximately 411,549 teaching
positions were either unfilled or filled by teachers not fully certified for
their assignments — representing roughly one in eight of all teaching positions
nationally. A 2025 University of Missouri study of about 500 public school
teachers found that 78% had considered quitting since the pandemic, citing lack
of administrative support, excessive workload, inadequate compensation, and
challenging student behaviors.
The 2025 RAND State of the
American Teacher survey reports that 62% of teachers experienced frequent
job-related stress — compared to 33% of similar working adults. Teachers work
an average of 49 hours per week while contracted for roughly 39, earning an
average base salary of $73,000 — approximately $30,000 less than comparable
working adults. Female teachers, who constitute the large majority of the
profession, report higher rates of burnout and stress than male teachers — a
disparity that RAND has flagged for further study.
A 2024 Brown University working
paper described the teaching profession as being in its worst state in 50
years. Less than one-fifth of teachers leaving the profession are retiring; the
rest are fleeing — toward other careers, toward higher pay, toward work
environments that do not require them to absorb the consequences of every
unaddressed social failure while being told they are the problem.
One NEA-quoted teacher put
it plainly: "School isn't fun. By that, I mean engaging for students and
rewarding for educators. It's the opposite. It's like boot camp for a lot of
students."
Teachers who do push back — who
insist on purpose-driven pedagogy, who resist the busywork industrial complex,
who ask why their students are being prepared for a world that automation is
already rewriting — are often pushed out or marginalized. The system does not
reward courage. It rewards compliance.
AI and the Coming Displacement: Nobody Is Talking About the Real Problem
Layered on top of all of this
is a technological disruption that is arriving faster than any educational
institution is prepared to handle. Artificial intelligence is already
restructuring the labor market — displacing routine cognitive work at a scale and
pace that previous automation waves could not approach. Corporations are openly
implementing AI not because it serves workers better, but because it
dramatically reduces labor costs.
The honest question our schools
should be grappling with is: what are we preparing children to do in a world
where a significant portion of the work they have historically been trained for
will not exist? That question requires radical rethinking of purpose, of
curriculum, of what school is fundamentally for.
Instead, the dominant
educational response to AI has been to generate more busywork — sometimes with
AI's own help — and to double down on the assessment apparatus. Rather than
asking whether this horse is still alive, we are discussing how to use AI to ride
it faster. The students can feel the absurdity. Children are perceptive. They
know when what they are being asked to do does not connect to any meaningful
future.
Why "Golden" Matters: What the Children Are Telling Us
Return, then, to the song.
"Golden" is the centerpiece of KPop Demon Hunters, an empowerment
anthem in which three young women who have been given a hidden, crushing
responsibility — protecting the world through the power of their voices — finally
step into the full acknowledgment of what they are. The film's central
character, Rumi, is half-demon. She has been taught that her nature is
something to be ashamed of, hidden, and eventually erased. "Golden"
is the moment she and her bandmates refuse that narrative.
Billboard's Jason Lipshutz
described the song as having been "designed as a smash in the fictional
world of the movie, but was strong enough to become one in the real world
too" — a track that works both as pop craftsmanship and as "a highly
positive, musically undeniable piece of pop songwriting" that children and
adults alike reach for when they need to feel something real.
The song's songwriter and
performer EJAE described watching children of all races and backgrounds dress
as Korean women for Halloween, singing Korean lyrics in the streets of New
York, and finding in these characters something they needed: strong women who
are not princesses waiting to be saved, but fighters who use their gifts to
protect the people they love — even when the world has told them their gifts
are shameful.
This is what a billion plays
sounds like. It sounds like children who have been told, in a hundred thousand
subtle and not-so-subtle ways, that they are not enough — who recognize in this
song a counter-narrative they desperately want to be true.
A CDC youth mental health
report notes that "school connectedness" — the belief that others at
school care about you and your well-being — is one of the most powerful
protective factors for adolescent mental health. Students who feel connected to
their school are measurably less likely to experience depression and anxiety.
What our schools are manufacturing right now is the opposite of connectedness.
They are manufacturing alienation, irrelevance, and the quiet conviction that
no one at school is actually invested in the person you are becoming.
The Clarion Call: What Must Actually Change
A problem this deep does not
have a simple fix. But it does have identifiable starting points, and they
require the willingness of educators, administrators, school boards, and
policymakers to stop confusing institutional self-preservation with service to
children.
Acknowledge that the
testing-accountability industrial complex has failed.
Not partially failed.
Systemically failed. The student who can pass a standardized test in reading
but has never been asked why a story matters, what a character's choice reveals
about human nature, or how literature connects to their own life, has not been
educated. They have been processed. Dismounting the dead horse means accepting
this loss publicly and redirecting resources toward relational, purpose-driven
learning.
Treat teachers as the
professionals the entire system depends on.
A profession in which workers
earn $30,000 less than comparable adults, work ten hours beyond their
contracted week, and report burnout at twice the rate of the general population
is a profession that is being dismantled in real time. If school boards want
teachers who inspire children, they must create environments where teachers are
themselves inspired. That means competitive pay, genuine professional autonomy,
protection from political harassment, and administrative cultures that treat
teachers as partners rather than managed labor.
Confront the culture war at
the institutional level.
Every school board and
administrator who fails to defend the historical record, inclusive curricula,
and the professional autonomy of teachers against bad-faith political pressure
is not neutral. They are complicit. The children who feel erased — whose families
and histories and identities are treated as controversial — are not abstract
policy debates. They are people in your classrooms. Their mental health data is
in the statistics cited above.
Reckon honestly with the AI
transition.
Rather than using AI to
generate more of the same busywork, educators need to be asking what skills,
capacities, and forms of wisdom are uniquely human and worth cultivating for
the world that is coming. Critical thinking, creativity, empathy, the ability
to work in relationship with other people, the capacity to find and make
meaning — these are not soft skills. They are the skills that will matter when
much of the routine cognitive work children are currently trained for has been
automated.
Listen to what the children
are telling you.
When a billion people reach for
an anthem about being seen, about refusing shame, about the power of your own
voice — they are not making a cultural preference. They are broadcasting a
need. If our schools cannot meet that need, then charter schools, homeschooling,
and alternative models will continue to draw families away — not because those
models are uniformly superior, but because they are sometimes the only places
offering children the experience of actually mattering.
A Final Word: The Mirror We Must Look Into
There is a habit in education —
as in many institutions — of looking outward for someone to blame when things
go wrong. Parents. Politicians. Technology. Social media. The culture. Those
forces are real, and their impacts are real. But the institution of public
education in America also has a mirror it consistently refuses to look into.
What would it see if it did? A
profession built partly on the logic of paying women less than men. A system
expanded through exclusion — of Black students, poor students, female students
— that still carries those structural inequities forward in test score gaps,
funding disparities, and the unequal distribution of experienced teachers. An
accountability apparatus that has produced thirty years of data showing it does
not work, and has responded by asking for more of itself. A workforce in
profound distress, leaving in droves, warning us that something is
fundamentally wrong.
And one billion children —
because that is, in effect, what the data represents — listening to a song
about being seen, about refusing to let shame define them, about using their
voices to fight something dark that the adults around them will not name.
The kids are not alright.
"Golden" is not the problem. "Golden" is the diagnosis.
The question is whether the
adults responsible for this system are ready to hear it.
Research
Notes & Sources
The following sources were consulted and verified in the
preparation of this essay:
On KPop Demon Hunters and "Golden":
Wikipedia: KPop Demon Hunters / Golden (Huntr/x song) • Netflix
Tudum • Billboard.com • Variety • Nielsen Media Research • uDiscover Music •
Collider • Music Ally • Rotten Tomatoes
On the
feminization of teaching:
MIT/Wellesley: The Feminization of Teaching in America •
Encyclopedia.com • Encyclopedia of Diversity in Education • Facing History
& Ourselves • Cal Poly SLO thesis (Digital Commons) • Dalhousie/Atlantic
Universities Teaching Showcase
On teacher
burnout and shortages:
Learning Policy Institute (2025) • RAND Corporation: State of
the American Teacher 2025 • NEA • Education Week • Devlin Peck Teacher Burnout
Statistics • We Are Teachers
On youth
mental health:
CDC Adolescent Health • U.S. Surgeon General's Advisory (2021) •
Annie E. Casey Foundation • Mental Health America • The Jed Foundation •
Frontiers in Psychiatry (McGorry et al., 2025) • Wikipedia: Youth Mental Health
Crisis
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